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Don’t waste your Love

We learn throughout our life. Every single attribute of our actions are the result of those learnings.

But the first thing that engulfs our heart and body is a feeling called Love. It’s our first connection to this world. Our whole existence is the result of Love only.  And our mother, the first source of this feeling.

As we grow we come across several forms of Love. A pure, deep and unconditional Love from our mother, a protective, supportive and influential Love from our father,  a sweet and sour yet affectionate Love from our brother’s and sister’s and a passionate and trustful Love from our life partner.

So much Love in our life, so much learnings.  There’s no doubt that we love our parents, brother’s and sister’s or our life partner as much as they do.

But personally, sometimes I feel I have failed in showing my love to them. Sometimes there is a fear inside of me that this life might prove to be less to tell them how much I love them. And more to add to this is the fact that I have already wasted half of my life!

As a kid, I’ve been demanding, then on reaching my teen age I became a little rebellious and stubborn person. But now after all these years, I realize that all those time I had been wasting my love and care for my parents. It’s not that I didn’t loved them or cared about them then, but as much as I kept that all  inside, not telling them how I feel about them, my actions didn’t suggested my feelings too!

I’m 23 now, And I am happy that I am past all of that silliness or should I say, my ignorance. I have become a better, improved version of myself. A more responsible and wiser one.  But still sometimes I fear of all the time wasted, I fear whether I will ever be  able to tell them how much I love, care and adore them. How much I want to make them happy, proud and bring their dreams to meet the reality.

I am trying now. And I believe that I will.

So don’t just wait for any time to come and sweep away all your problems so that you could show your Love to your loved ones. It may be now or never! You never know what’s next.

Keep aside your outer world’s  problems, and tell your parents, your siblings, your  life partner or your kids that you love them, that you are there with them no matter what comes.

Last but not the least, Smile. For every smile on your face, will bring a smile to their’s.

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A Step Ahead

So What do you do, when you feel powerless?

You cry, you tremble, feel helpless. You curse yourself. You find it hard to believe that once again, people didn’t listened to what you had to say, they couldn’t understand what you felt to be that way.
Take your time. But don’t let it settle on you forever.
Don’t either push it away.
Just be there, for once. For once plunge deep into that feeling, let it flow through you once.
Once and for All!
You might reach a point feeling every cell in your body, every nerve in your brain pumping out a rage. A rage telling you to go to the limit of changing every single drop of your being. An urge to get transformed into someone who just doesn’t feel anything. Someone who’s resistant to all the feelings of love, care, affection, anger, depression. An urge to become someone who can be mistaken for a machine. Into a body dried out of blood, no matter how many times they cut you, not even a single drop of blood would flow.
They say I don’t care, okay, I wouldn’t care. They think I don’t love, okay, I wouldn’t love.
Just stop right there.
Take a deep breath and THINK.
Is it really worth changing the way you feel, the way you really are? Is ANYTHING really worth taking such a step?
NO! It isn’t!
Don’t ever let anything bad that happened to you, change anything good about you.
You took a deep plunge, you’d let that feeling flow through you ONCE AND FOR ALL. Now you are past it now. Remember, don’t let it settle on you ever!
Get up and move on.
Let that bad phase bring out a stronger you. And a stronger you is a better you.
Get on and move on. Smile and forgive others, but first of all, forgive yourself.
Because, Forgiving is the biggest POWER of all.
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